…and are now just waiting for the lever to be long enough.
Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world.
The same-sex “marriage” proponents have their fulcrum in the Supreme Court decision. Now all that they require is a lever long enough to dislodge Christianity from Western civilization.
The Lever Lengthens
They are winning the culture war one person at a time, and with each person their lever lengthens. It will not be long before they win substantial victories over Christians in every area of society.
They will modify school curricula to require the teaching of books and materials that assert same-sex “marriages” and households are equivalent to traditional ones. If you are a teacher and refuse to go along, you will be fired and branded as a hateful bigot who will then find it difficult to get another teaching job.
If you have your children in public schools, they will force your child to listen to same-sex propaganda. And before long they will push to force any school, including Catholic ones, who receive state funding or tax exemption, to teach such things.
They will require churches to marry them, and if those churches refuse they will sue the churches. Even if churches get “out of the civil marriage business,” this will happen. Churches will lose tax exempt status and lose countless millions of dollars to lawsuits until they cave or go bankrupt.
And this is just the tip of the iceberg. One day I have little doubt that people who write blog posts like this one or who speak about traditional marriage will be ostracized and be at risk for being sued as bigots.
Have We Lost the Cultural War?
We are losing it.
We are being routed, in ways that a 5-4 SCOTUS decision doesn’t properly reflect.
The squashy middle has been won over. They were ripe for the picking, given the degraded state of our society and the lack of education in objective philosophical and moral truths that all of us in the past six decades or so have grown up in.
I have discussions with my coworkers almost everyday about these topics. They don’t understand why two people shouldn’t be able to do whatever they want, with whomever they want, as long as “they don’t hurt anybody.”
I’ve tried explaining fundamentals of natural law, teleology, and ontology, but this is gibberish to them. No comprende/it’s a riddle.
My friends counter that traditional couples divorce at a high rate, some abuse children, and many are generally awful. (All those things are true, I grant them, but those are all bad things that no one thinks people should be doing.)
I point out that children need a mother and father, and even those who agree counter that different people could fulfill the mother and father role.
I point out that children in traditional families objectively have better lives than those from same-sex households, but they say that is not true. I point to Mark Regnerus’s study as solid evidence of my position, but they do not care.
Most of my friends who support same-sex “marriage” are not the extremists who want to use it to demolish Christianity and hurt Christians. But the extremists will happily use them to do so, by winning the court of public opinion, academia, the courts, legislatures, and social media.
My same-sex “marriage” supporting friends have even started to be appalled by the ways that traditional marriage supporters are being attacked. They see that it is being used as a baseball bat to bludgeon religious people.
Get On the Bandwagon
I listen to a popular entrepreneurial business podcast. Last Friday’s episode had all the hosts rejoicing over the SCOTUS decision with lines like:
“Finally the courts decided what we’ve all known for 15 years.”
(Though apparently Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton didn’t know it back then, in spite of them being champions of enlightened liberalism.)
“We are for equality. Why shouldn’t all people be equal?”
These inane quips, along with the #lovewins hashtag, reheated and repurposed from Rob Bell’s universalist movement some years back, seem to them as obvious and impenetrable slogans that auto-counter any argument.
The software development twitter sphere was abuzz with glowing tweets about love winning and how awesome everything was. No peep of protest from anyone, myself included. Because the instant you try to say something against it, you will be demolished, protested against, and likely banned as a hater from twitter entirely.
“Love” as they define it, doesn’t win. But ostracizing people socially does win.
The point is simple: you will get on the bandwagon or you will be crushed.
What of Our Churches?
Our churches have been largely silent. A fortnight for freedom here, a mildly worded message there.
We were and are largely silent about no-fault divorce, contraception, cohabitation, pornography, and all the other ills that have undermined families and the very understanding of what a family is that has allowed this debacle to take place.
Our time of reckoning is coming, and we deserve what we get.
I have been blessed to be at many good parishes over the past fifteen years, with pastors who spoke out against all these things, but those priests and parishes have been all too rare in the decades leading up to now.
I don’t advocate giving up, of course. We can and must continue to fight and to encourage our priests and bishops to stand for truth with courage. But our failures must be admitted, too. We as Catholics have not lived as faithfully as we should have.
We Were Made For This Time
Far from being despondent, we should be renewed with conviction.
We were made for this time. God has given you life here and now. Nothing is ever hopeless with Christ.
Pray like a saint. Evangelize like a saint. Live like a saint. Speak like a saint. Become a saint.
The Lord knows how far I fall short of this, but I believe with His grace I can become who He has created me to be.
Is Leaving An Option?
Some friends have felt the desire to leave the United States and go elsewhere. Is that an option?
I think it is. Parents must consider not just what they can endure themselves, but what kind of society they will rear their children in, and what future their children will have.
Sadly, many countries are even worse than the United States morally speaking, so a tough question is where could you actually go that wouldn’t be out of the frying pan and into the fire.
Malta? Monaco? Luxembourg? Philippines? Thailand?
Obviously it is a huge decision to leave your own country, something that would take the most serious discernment. And I think that overall most people would not be called to it, but I also think it is a possibility families should consider.
Our country is in a steep decline. The consequences of the SCOTUS decision and the subsequent actions that will shortly follow are dire and will affect children, families, and our country and world for the next century and beyond.
In the end, true Love wins, which means God wins; truth wins. We are facing a new time, when being a Christian will not be acceptable. But this is a time that other Christians have faced before us, even to the point of giving their lives for Christ. Our martyrdom will be slower, white instead of red most likely, but still painful and difficult.
May God give us the strength to persevere.
Practical Actions To Take
What can you do now?
Arm yourself with a good book by Ryan Anderson like Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom.
Also I just heard about this easy way to consecrate (or reconsecrate) yourself and family to Christ through our Blessed Mother via St. Louis de Montfort’s 33-day prayers and readings.
Pray, be converted, evangelize, love others and speak the truth in love.